Picking out an appropriate mother of the bride beach wedding dress can be difficult for any mom. After all, you want to look your best on your daughter's big day in an age appropriate, lightweight and stylish mother of the bride gown.
Formal Beach Dress Options
A formal wedding in the evening or late afternoon still calls for an elegant evening dress. Look for ones with a flowy feel to them, which are styled towards a summer occasion versus a holiday party.
- Montage by Mon Cheri 117919: Available in smoke gray or water blue, this cap-sleeved chiffon and lace dress has a fitted bodice with a flowing skirt.
- Montage by Mon Cheri 215902: An illusion panel top with a sweetheart neckline and ruched bodice helps hide any tummy flaws while providing elegance with a slightly flowing skirt. The dress comes in pewter, black, blue and eggplant.
- RM Richards 9141D: This metallic lace and chiffon full-length dress is perfect for the mother of the bride who want to look stylish yet still feel comfortable. It comes with a matching jacket
Daymor Couture 3001 Petal Chiffon: The casual silhouette of this dress, which is available in eleven colors, makes it a good choice for a beach wedding without going too informal.
Semi-Formal Gown Choices
A semi-formal gown for the mother of the bride can range from short cocktail style dresses to long gowns with simple styling.
- Scala Silk Beaded Dress with Bolero Jacket: This lovely beaded dress hits just below the knee and offers an airy feel to the wedding attire.
- Beaded Lace Dress with Jacket: This is an ankle-length dress available in champagne or blush. There's beading along the bodice and matching jacket while the chiffon skirt hangs loosely to the ankles.
- Sheer Lace Cape Evening Gown by Lara: If you're looking for something semi-formal that's a bit more fun, this floor-length dress will fit the bill. A white gown lays underneath a sheer lace overlay. The lace is adorned with asymmetrical flowers. The dress comes in black or plum.
- Cameron Blake Dress 13675: This is a delicate mixture of soft tones, lace, and beads that features a tiered skirt and jacket.
What to Wear to a Casual Beach Wedding
Though guests may wear country club casual attire to an informal wedding, as the mother of the bride, you should take that level up a notch or two in your dress. You can still be casual but elegant at an informal wedding. Simple patterns or more flamboyant detailing may be appropriate, depending on your daughter's wedding style.
- Bow Detail Georgette and Lace Dress: This lovely dress is available in three neutral shades and is something you can wear again and again, long after the wedding is over. The bodice has cap sleeves and a boat neckline. The entire dress has a lace overlay and falls just at the knees. It's perfect for an easy beach wedding.
- Jason Wu Watercolor Print Dress: This knee-length silk dress features a print showcasing gorgeous flowers. The fabric will flow in the breeze of an outdoor beach wedding.
- Narcisco Rodriguez Jacquard Sheath Dress: This attractive, sleeveless number features a fabulous windowpane pattern and end just below the knees. This is another dress you'll get plenty of use out of after the wedding is over.
- Stella McCartney Gathered Scoop Neck Trapeze Gown: Perfect for an outdoor beach wedding, this long, flowing gown will turn heads. Featuring a scoop neck with gathered material, the dress hangs freely from the neck.
- Eliza J Chiffon Fit & Flare Maxi Dress: If a whimsical floral print fits your signature look, you'll love this long, flirty style. If you have great arms, even better; this rose pattern dress in shades of pink will put them on display.
The Right Dress for the Occasion
Body and Age Appropriate Dresses
As the 21st century continues, the old "rules" for dressing mothers of the bride and groom seem to be disappearing. As mature women often look better and better the older they get, there is no need for them to cover their arms or not show their knees just because they hit a particular age.
That being said, you should still wear body and age appropriate clothing that accentuates a single best feature. A knee-skimming sheath with bolero jack will show off great gams, while an off-the shoulder neckline will highlight great shoulders and collarbone. Save any miniskirts and plunging necklines, even if you can pull them off, for another occasion.
Colors should be complementary to the bridal party. An accent color found in the wedding flowers is a great option for your dress color. Light colors, like pastel blues, greens and pinks, and beiges are great options. Avoid dresses in all white, ivory and off-white. Black, navy or deep purple are appropriate for elegant evening weddings, though you may want to check with your daughter to be sure.
Choosing a mother of the bride dress usually means taking into consideration the color and cut of the bridesmaid dresses and the overall feel of the wedding itself. Beach weddings, however, pose a few extra questions that you will need to find the answers to before purchasing that special dress:
- What time of year is it? Sometimes beaches can get chilly in the evenings, especially at receptions later in the night. Conversely, afternoon weddings in the heat of the summer sun will be hot and possibly humid.
- Will the reception be held outside or inside? Air conditioned indoor receptions provide a different environment than outdoors.
- Is there a lot of wind off the particular waters at the destination beach? Super lightweight fabrics may blow in the breeze, revealing more than you intended.
- What is the formality of the wedding/wedding party? Although a beach wedding might sound informal or even casual, many are swanky black-tie affairs.
Your gown should not only compliment the style of the day but also your husband or significant other's fashion. If he is not wearing a tuxedo, have him choose a silk shirt for a beach wedding that matches the color of your ensemble. Color coordination will look elegant in photographs, regardless of the formality of the wedding.
Mother of the Bride Beach Dress Shopping Tips
Before you pick out your mother of the bride beach wedding dress, ask to see your daughter's dress and the beach bridesmaid dress styles. Remember to complement, but not copy, their color and design. Other tips include:
- Visit a number of stores, from boutiques to wedding dress shops to department stores, for the best selection.
- Buying a dress from the same salon as your daughter may end up getting you a discount.
- Ask your daughter to help you shop. If that is not possible, keep the tags and receipts until you get her final approval.
- Accessorize with a bolero jacket, shawl or scarf in a neutral or matching color.
- Wear low heels or flats if the wedding is in the sand. Switch to heels for professional photographs and/or the reception.
- Buy the dress in the size you are now. Though you may plan to lose weight before the wedding, you want to be sure the dress will fit.
- Waiting until the last minute is a recipe for disaster - but shopping too early can lead to regrets or multiple gowns purchased that go out of style or are no longer in your taste.
Mothers of the bride who are close to mothers of the grooms may want to shop together to find complementary styles. If nothing else, let your daughter and her fiancé know your dress color and design in a timely manner, so his mom can begin her search for the perfect wedding dress.
Beautiful Beach Gowns for Mom
Plenty of beautiful gowns for mothers of the bride are available to choose amongst, from formal gowns to casual dresses, that will fit whatever beach style your daughter has chosen. Picking out a beautiful gown for your daughter's beach wedding is an exciting shopping trip, as you want to be sure you look your best, too.