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Ann - It's unfortunate that some people will "ask" for a favor when they expect a particular answer. Hopefully you expressed your reasons tactfully and your decision (which you made perfectly well) won't cause a permanent rift in your relationship with your sister.

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

When planning a party, be careful what favors you ask of family members. I was asked by my sister, the mother of the groom, if an engagement party could be held at my house which is near his apartment. My sister lives across the country, won't be able to attend the party and she wants me to help him out. Due to a temporary work assignment that has taken me far from my home, I have rented my house to another family member. Since I can't attend the party nor monitor the festivities, I told her "no". The bride, groom and their friends are younger than 25 and I worry they won't drink responsibly. I've never met the friends, the bride or her family. I recommended a restaurant but she wouldn't listen. My sister expressed how disappointed she was with my decision. I wish she had never asked.

-- Contributed by: Ann Sherman

Robin - The best course of action is to send a congratulatory note wishing them well as they prepare for their wedding, and to offer your support and welcome for them as a couple.

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

I have just returned from an engagement party for my son and his bride to be. I there any protocal I should follow? Should I send a thank you card or a note? Sincerely, Robin

-- Contributed by: robin
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