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Jennifer - Traditionally, a junior bridesmaid would stand at the end of the bridesmaids, but since she is the groom's daughter and will be part of your family, it may be better to have her closer to the center of the line so she feels closer to the promises that are being made. She can be right next to you, then your maid of honor, then the other bridesmaids - she'll also be able to see and hear better in that position. It's all up to what you, your groom, and his daughter are comfortable with. Best wishes!

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

My grroms daughter is the junior bridesamid in our upcoming wedding. Where does she stand during the ceremony? I was told it would m be me, my maid of honor then bridesmaids then jr bridesmaids at the end. Is that correct?

-- Contributed by: Jennifer

Paige - She can really do either. If the junior bridesmaid is really close to the bride (her sister, for example), she may want to stand with the other bridesmaids, but she may also be more comfortable being out of the spotlight after walking down the aisle, particularly if there are several bridesmaids. If there is only one junior bridesmaid and just 1-2 bridesmaids, they usually stay together. If she sits, it it is best to have a spot reserved in the front pew or front row of seats so she can do so gracefully without disruption.

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

Does the junior bridesmaid stand with the bridesmaid or go sit with parents i have read both. If you could tell me that would help a lot.

-- Contributed by: Paige Jolee

Hi Brooke, Typically the junior bridesmaid walks down the aisle alone (preceding the bridemaids), or with a junior groomsman if one is in the wedding party.

-- Contributed by: Amy Finley

What is the role of a junior bridesmaid coming down the aisle. I will be having four bridesmaids and her and four groomsmen. Does she come down alone, with another bridesmaid and groomsman (as the numbers will be uneven)? Thanks!

-- Contributed by: brooke edwards

Hi Kpana, Typically flower girls are younger in age. It would be perfectly acceptable to have her walk down the aisle as a junior bridesmaid with a bouquet rather than the traditional flower petals. Best wishes!

-- Contributed by: Amy Finley

Hi-I was having a hard time finding a flower girl. I finally decided to have my 10 yr old sister act as my junior bridesmaid. Does she still have the typical "flower girl" duty of walking down the aisle with flowers?

-- Contributed by: Kpana

I have a cousin who i would like to be in our wedding party. By the time of the wedding she will be 14 and a half {just finishing up her freshman year of high school}. We are extremly close and for her age she is very mature. would it be OK to have her as a bridesmaid instead of a jr bridesmaid?? I wil be having a jr bridesmaid that is 12 and 5 other bridesmaids ranging from 24-32.

-- Contributed by: Holly

Adam - A junior bridesmaid does whatever tasks the bride and groom feel are appropriate for her. While most younger bridesmaids may not help much with the bride getting into her gown, perhaps she could be in charge of handing out bouquets to the other bridesmaids, or tending the guest book at the reception to be sure everyone signs it. She can also help decorate the ceremony and reception sites, particularly if other members of the bridal party will be helping out. There may be other small tasks she can easily do that would keep her included in the wedding as well, but the most important thing is that you've made her feel loved and welcomed by including her, even if she doesn't have a specific role.

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

hi i am having my daughter in the wedding party as a junior bridesmaid and i/we are still unsure of exactly what her role is ....could you help please adam&julie thanks....

-- Contributed by: adam

Ashley - Your role is to be supportive and helpful to your aunt. She may want you to help pass out favors or programs, help her get ready, or be sure people sign the guest book. You can ask her if there is a specific task she'd like you to do, but otherwise you are there to show your support for her marriage. During the ceremony, you will walk down the aisle and stand near her as she says her vows -- be sure not to fidget, smile nicely, and in that way show how much you love and care for her. That will mean a lot to her.

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

my aunt is having a wedding aand i am a junior bridesmaid. i still just dont undertand my role. i just stand there the entire time and look pretty? help me pleae!

-- Contributed by: ashley

Sarah - You can have as many attendants, including junior bridesmaids, as you like, but it could look a bit overbalanced. Having them walk together in pairs is a great way to include everyone without making the processional go on so long. Best wishes!

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

I have 3 nieces and my Fiance has 1 niece. I have 3 bridesmaids and my nieces and his are years old to 10. They all want to be apart of the wedding. I do not want to break their little hearts. I want to let 2 girls walk togather and then the other 2 girls to walk togather. Would this be too many Jr. Bridesmaids?

-- Contributed by: Sarah

Mary - It would be inappropriate for the groom's father to give you away (he's not part of your family after all), but your son could do a fabulous job in that role. It's also not uncommon for a bride to walk down the aisle herself, particularly an independent woman such as yourself! Other alternatives may be an uncle or other male relative, or a close friend. Your mother could also serve in that role or other female relative if you wish.

-- Contributed by: Melissa Mayntz

Hi, let me first say that this web site is the best thing on the internet for weddings! I can't belive how much information there is. Wow! I had been lokking every where for a site like this. Thank you sooo much! Ok, so here's my question... I don't have a father and I am the bribe, who can give me away? My son? (17yrs) or grooms father? Please help! Thanks again!

-- Contributed by: mary
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