Modern brides are frequently doing a dress change between the ceremony and reception. This trend has many brides-to-be searching for what is referred to as a wedding reception dress. Even though the trend in contemporary Western weddings is relatively new, it is tradition in several cultures.
Ceremony Versus Reception Dress Style
Although worn during the same wedding, a ceremony and reception dress usually have different attributes.
A ceremony dress:
- Might be more formal or have a fuller skirt
- May have a long train
- Can be more intricate in beading or other detail
- May restrict a bride more in her movement
- Can be more demure or covering, to accommodate church or ceremony location rules
- Is usually floor-length and more formal
A reception dress:
- Can be looser or more flowing, allowing for more movement
- May be less structured
- Has a short or no train, to allow for easier movement
- Might be shorter in length, such as above the knee or tea-length
- Is usually less formal
- May not be white
- May reflect the theme of the reception, such as the '50s, which would be inappropriate to display during the ceremony
The overarching difference between the two types of gowns is their formality. A ceremony dress is often more formal so as to reflect the solemnity of the ceremony and church in which the ceremony occurs, while a reception dress is typically less structured and less formal to accommodate the party aspect of the wedding.
According to Glamour Weddings, there is no need for one of the two dresses to cost more or less than the other; instead, the two dresses can be relatively the same in terms of expense. However, the publication does state that, because the time spent in the reception dress is longer, you may consider spending slightly more on that dress.
Why Wear Reception Gowns
A bride wears a wedding reception dress for two main reasons: when she desires a second dress or because of her culture's custom.
Some brides make the personal choice to change dresses between the ceremony and reception. Reasons for this choice may be:
- Falling in love with two wedding dresses and being unable to choose just one
- Having a family heirloom that is traditionally worn during the ceremony
- A dress being restrictive and better suited for a ceremony than dancing at a reception
- Wanting two wedding gowns
Regardless of reason, these brides change out of their ceremony dress and into their reception dress during the time between the two events. Depending on the change, this may require alterations to her hair, makeup, and accessories.
Some cultures have customs dictating that a bride should wear more than one outfit on her wedding day. Examples of these cultures include:
- Japan: Japanese brides often wear more than one kimono on their wedding day. Traditionally, a simple kimono is worn during the ceremony and a more elaborate one during the reception.
- China: Modern Chinese brides can change as many as three times during their wedding. Usually, the first outfit consists of a traditional white, Western dress worn during the civil ceremony. The second outfit, which is worn during the tea ceremony, consists of a traditional Chinese bridal gown. Finally, the bride changes a third time, usually into a cocktail dress, before the end of the reception banquet.
- Morocco: Brides in this country can change their outfit as many as seven times during their wedding day. These outfit changes are more common amongst urban brides. The bride's wedding dress is usually a caftan, which is a long robe made of silk, satin or a similar fabric, covered with a jacket. However, most brides usually wear a white wedding gown after their final outfit change.
In multi-cultural weddings, it is not uncommon for a bride to change her gown between the ceremony and reception. One outfit will likely be the traditional outfit for her cultural background, such as an Indian wedding sari, but the other may be a contemporary Western long white gown. When to wear each item is up to the bride. For example, in an Indian-American wedding, some brides choose to wear the sari during the ceremony to reflect any traditional Indian elements included in it, while others prefer to wear the it during the reception so that they can move more freely while dancing.
Where to Find a Reception Dress
Although most bridal stores sell less formal gowns that are suitable for a reception dress, some larger department stores also sell gowns that are appropriate for a bride to wear during her wedding reception.
Simply Dresses offers several wedding reception-specific dresses that stand out for their lack of formality and low cost. Many of these dresses are short, contain some color embellishment, and cost less than $500. For example, the Strapless Short Dress is knee-length and allows for easy movement due to the flowing skirt. This dress costs $69.
Additionally, the company offers prom gowns that are suitable to wear as wedding reception dresses. The Pleated Pastel Strapless Formal Dress contains a sheer floor length skirt over a short dress and sells for $99. The dress' lack of formality and the fact that it exposes more of the bride's body than a traditional floor-length wedding gown make it perfect for a wedding reception.
TJ Formal offers reception-focused dresses to brides that are unique in their high-end fabrics, such as lace and silk, and the fact that dresses can be offered in a variety of colors, not just white. Additionally, dresses come in a variety of styles and can cost less than $1,000.
- The Mori Lee Voyage 6175 T-Length high-low dress contains minimal embellishment at the waist, allows for easy movement, is less formal, and costs just $129.
- The Pretty Maids 22338 one shoulder, a-line dress allows a bride to move freely due to its loose, flowing skirt, and only contains a small amount of embellishment. It is available in a variety of colors and costs less than $500.
Nordstrom is an upscale department store that offers both wedding ceremony and reception dresses. Its reception dresses are white and usually shorter, and cost between approximately $200 and $800. This company's reception dresses stand out because of the company's easy return policy and the fact that many dresses were made by high-end designers.
- The Tadashi Sequin Sheath Dress is a great option for a formal, evening reception. The short dress contains an eye-catching lace overlay.
- Ralph Lauren's floor-length lace long-sleeved column gown offers a simple, yet sophisticated, look. The dress, which costs under $200, comes in champagne.
David's Bridal identifies several of its wedding dresses as reception dresses. The store and its dresses stand out because of the option for alterations and the fact that it offers affordable gowns by high-end designers, such as Vera Wang. Gowns cost around $1,000 and are floor-length. Despite being floor-length gowns, they are fairly simple, with little or no beading. They are not overly structured.
- Vera Wang's Strapless Tiered Dress has a short hemline that might not be suitable to wear during a ceremony. It features a layered and ruffled skirt that falls well above the knees. It costs around $500.
- The v-neck stretch lace and sequin dress allows brides complete freedom of movement in their legs due to the stretchy lace and costs $159.
Your Wedding Reception Dress
Whether personal choice or cultural custom, purchasing and changing into a reception wedding dress allows you to showcase your background, personality, and style. You'll have the freedom to feel comfortable enough to dance the night away.